Well, my boyfriend, and I broke up yesterday because for the last week, the relationship has been quite boring. So, we both decided that it'd be best if we're just friends. I suppose he was hurt, because before me, he totally gave up on the concept of love, and then he said he found it within me. We've both been hurt by our past, and I really love him...I never wanted to lose him. But then he just seemed like he didn't care anymore. Like, he kept saying he keeps getting heartbrokened, and left after every single relationship. %26amp; Then I tried talking to him, but he wouldn't talk to me, saying he needs some time. I told him it'd be best if we're friends. But he said he couldn't just be my friend. I love him so much, and he doesn't think I do because I just don't like showing it. But I do, and I miss him so much. The last thing he said was he needed some time alone. %26amp; Last night, he texted me at 2, and said Hey. I replied, but he didn't....What do I do ? It's starting to tear me up inside.Advice? :)?
Well then you should be strong for him. Give him some time alone to think things through. Be supportive but if he takes longer than a week to think it over then I think you need to move on because you will be asking for more hurt from him later if you stick around. If this guy claims to Love you that much then he will remember how he was when he was with you and will come running back in no time. Theres a famous saying that goes ';You never know what you got until its gone'; and when dealing with Love and space this saying always applies. Goodluck and my heart goes out to ya.Advice? :)?
First its silly to break up just because its been a boring week. Were both of you putting in the effort to make it fun? and to be honest it just sounds like you guys just need to communicate your feelings. You both are still holding on unable to admit your feelings for the other..someone has to step up. Just tell him how you feel the worst thing that can happen is rejection. If you love him then you can tell him.
tell him that. tell him that you really miss him. like, alot. once again, crying helps. alot. if he loves you too, hell come back. dont worry =]
if u love him then dont break up simple as that.. try to get him back who cares how boring ur weak has been giv it time
Very simple. Just tell him exatly how you feel. Tell him that you think the split was a bad idea and you don't want to be away from him and you love him and don't want to try and get over him when you can be with him. If he truly feels the same and loves you as well, he will not hesitate and be yours again. But, you have nothing to lose by telling him what or how you feel. Use your question here as a guide in what to say. good luck
FIRST, Relationships are funny like that!! The concept of a relationship is to bring 2 people together in common with feelings,emotions,spirit and body. You could be missing one of these!! If you both have had bad experiences in past relationships ,then one or both of you need to make an self change. Besides, you could be confusing infatuation with love, that's a problem within it's self! I say that because... a lot of people can't seem to separate the 2. Infatuation is..when a person likes someone for their smile,laughs,companionship,friendship,th鈥?person can bring that life light into your day or for that moment. Love is..being there for each other no matter what..it's coming to each others needs and wants....it's listening and being understood and understanding.. it's making whats wrong into something right. When a man says..';he needs some time';, that's a flag that should be considered. It's a chance that INFATUATION is being confused with LOVE!!
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