Advice?!?!?

Me and my boyfriend have been together and here recently I have become embarrassed to ask him to do little things for me in the bed. But I do things for him. Is there anything wrong with thinking like this? Like when I ask him for something he tells me he doesnt like doing it. But I still do stuff for him. Is there a way to get him to try new things without trying to make it sound pushy? And any ideas of ';new'; things to do in the bed? Like I wanna try to be spanked but am afraid of his reaction. One day he joked and said it would be neat to have a threesome. Was he being serious or just trying to see what I would say? Any advice is good. ThanksAdvice?!?!?
No, there's nothing at all wrong with 'thinking like this' - but sounds like you have communication problems. Both of you are evidently harbouring erotic fantasies, but haven't quite worked out how best to express them to each other.





Men in particular often fantasise about threesomes (and I'd guess he meant you and another woman, not him and another man, right?). Approach this one with care - it can be wonderful, but it can also destroy the relationship.





Otherwise, it's probably a question of finding the right time and place when you're both relaxed and open enough to talk it all through. Try and surmount your embarrassment - it's absolutely fine to have sexual needs and desires, and anything that's consensual is absolutely ok. Good luck!