Advice?????????

im 10 weeks pregnant, and me and my boyf have split up.he is heavily pressurising me to get rid of the baby, but i dont feel that i can and so he now wants no part of it. after suffering a still birth a few years back ( not with the ex ) i just feel that its the wrong thing to do. i have one 6 year old little boy also.am i wrong to keep it??Advice?????????
You're definitely not wrong to keep it. He may have had a part in creating the baby, but you did, too; you're also the one carrying the baby. You have every right to keep it. If he wants nothing to do with the baby, then let him be the jerk he is and pay no mind to it.Advice?????????
no sweetie,your doing the right thing. this is your body and your choice aswel.i know he might have a say because he is the father of the baby,but he isn't the one who is going to live with this for the rest of his life if he is asking you to get rid of it. you can do this on your own.if he doesn't want nothing to do with you or the baby,well that's his lose,he will realize that one day when he See's how much he has missed out on his child's life. good luck sweetie and congrats.
you keep it honey! if he doesnt want anything to do with his child then so be it. make sure you get child support from him anyway!!! get the help you need from family and friends that you know will be there for you!! you can do it!!! you dont need him pressuring you to have an abortion!!!
no you are not wrong to keep it, its wrong for him to ask you to kill it so that he doesnt have to worry about responsibility





hold your head up high hun


good luck
You're never wrong to keep the baby you created. If he wants to be a selfish, irresponsible jerk that's his choice. I went through the same thing last year and now I've got a beautiful 9-week-old boy and I'm absolutely crazy about him. It wasn't at all easy going through it alone, but his dad did finally wise up three weeks before I delivered. We're not together but he's very involved with our son. It all depends on maturity and responsibility. Maybe your guy will get the sudden overwhelming guilt mine did. If he doesn't, it's his loss. I'm not going to tell you it'll be easy and you'll be fine. It's not easy. Every day's a struggle. But when people talk about how your friends and family will be there for you, they're telling the truth. Everyone I know has been completely helpful and understanding. If you have to go through it without the father, just remember to never let him see you struggle. Hold your head up, be proud of yourself and your child and make him see what he's missing at every opportunity. Also, once you prove paternity, bleed him dry with child support. If nothing else makes him feel bad, losing his money will.
No your not wrong to keep your baby. He is WRONG to suggest you kill the baby. Men come and go but that baby is your child forever.
he shouldnt be able to make you get rid of the baby it is strictly your choice
In the end my mom always told myself and my three sisters that even if the baby is conceived and had in the best situations you have to be prepared to raise the child by yourself b/c a man can leave you or worse pass away and leave you to raise your child yourself. so if your prepared to do this then by all means proceed...also think about how he is will he stay and make your life miserable or be a great dad to co-parent with? or will he just slide into the background and disappear?


if you choose to continue good luck and god bless!
If you keep your baby it has to be because YOU want it. If you get rid of your baby it has to be because YOU don't want it. Don't do it for this man - if he didn't want a child he should have put something over the end of it! lol





If it feels right to you just do it!





Good luck xx
Don't let anyone tell you what you should or should not do with your child. If your ex didn't want to have the baby then he should have kept it in his pants, and regardless he is responsible to take care of his child whether he wants to or not. Do what you feel is right in your heart!!!!
no you are not wrong to want to keep the baby at all...





there are plenty of single mothers out there who have gone thru the same thing as you are going thru now..





hang in there, you will forget all about him when you are holding your beautiful baby in your arms.





good luck and congratulations.
nope, your ex should not have put you in the position where it was possible to get pregnant, if he wasn't going to step up and be a man. He just needs a little time, and he will come around, especially if he is paying child support. Good luck to you.
heck no you are not wrong...its your body and your baby do what you want....what will you feel good about what you can deal with don't let him influence your decision at all...stay strong
hell no!!! your doing the right thing!! that guy is dumb! dont ever let him make decsions for you!! you keep that baby!! all that baby need is you
Nope!! Not at all, you are doing the right thing and you should feel proud of your self. Woman don't need a man in there life to help raise a child we can do it on our own, The way I see it we are much responsible and stronger then them. Be happy, your child will give you all the Love you need. :)
No, definetley keep it if your feeling this way. You don't need him anyways.....but he DOES have to pay child support, so make sure you have him follow through with that or else it's to court! Good luck!!!
he has absoloutely no right to ask you such a thing... and you're definitely doing the right thing keeping the baby... he'll always be your little baby no matter what :)
You are not wrong at all. Just because you and him are no longer together does not give anyone the right to pressure you for an abortion. It sounds to me like he doesn't want to have to pay for a baby, the child support and everything. don't let him get to you and enjoy your pregnancy. maybe he'll come around, maybe not, but its not like your asking him to RAISE the baby.
No you have every right to keep this child just because he is not man enough to take responsibility for his actions he must pay the consequences just because he cant keep it in his pants.You stand your ground and give this child love you wont regret it all the best on your decision.
NO! its your body and your baby too!!! do what you feel is best!!!
No ma'am you are not!!! You do NOT NEED a man to take care of a child!! Raise your baby, be happy and if he does not want anything to do with your child cut it as HIS lost!! Do however make sure you get support because ';SOME'; men are sorry excuses now a days. I wish you the best, Keep your spirits up!!
NO, you definitely shouldn't get rid of your baby and you should go to your l.ocal child support office after he is born.