But now I kind of want to date this other girl, not the one I said no to. I just dont know how ethical it would be to do that after i told my other friend no. Im confused as to what to do.Advice.....?
i think it would kinda mean if you did that to her. ask yourself how you would feel if someone turned you down because they didnt want to date in high school, but then started dating someone? yeah, it would hurt.Advice.....?
tell ur friend you said no to, that u had a change in mind, and you do want to date. if she is truly ur friend, she will understand and let u date who ever.
If you really believed what you said about not wanting to date in highschool, then you wouldn't be wanting to date this other girl. Sure, you can date her if you're willing to accept the fact that you're a liar, but then you've got to be willing to come clean with the first girl that your highschool rule really had nothing to do with it. Either that or stick to your priniciples and don't date in highschool.
it would majorly hurt her, but if you really like the other girl, go for it. just explain how you fell to the first girl, alot of girls have a soft spot for sensitive guys. just go w/the wind.
well dont lie to yourself you like this other girl but before you ask the other girl out, go back to your friend and just say ';I just want to say that I love your friendship, but I don't like you in that way. There is this girl. I know a while ago I told you I didn't want to date in high school but my feelings have changed. I'm really sorry and I hope that you understand. I understand if you are mad at me.';
BUT MEAN IT WHEN YOU SAY IT. She will probably be mad at you because you wouldn't date her, if she still has feelings for you.
Ask your friend out for a date and tell her you have decided to date some in high school after all. One date don`t mean you are going steady. Now after a week or so ask the other girl for a date and go from there. One or both of them might turn you down when you ask them for a date. If either one turns you down then that will solve your problem. If they both turn you down then you would feel free to date any one of your choice.
Sounds like you really weren't into the first girl. If you think that you have feelings for someone, go and date the second girl and tell the first girl you just want to be friends if she asks about it. You probably won't see either of them after high school anyway.
hey just explain too her saying how you changed your mind, not because she asked you out just because you now think your ready to date in high school.
Be honest about your confusion. Explain it. This will demonstrate you are capable of learning and growing. Don't play any games. Just be honest. Cheers.
Man its high school!!! I know it seems like this might be the worst thing u could do but believe me it doesn't matter!!! just have fun and live for yourself soon enough u will be living for someone else so just live it up wile u still can!!!
You can always tell your friend that you didn't want to be with her cause she's one of your BFF.
she'll be pissed but youre always allowed to change your mind so dating the other girl is alright as long as you explain to ur friend
what an idiot, and go out with the new girl and tell the first friend that u wanted to stay friends cause u dont want to ruin it
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