Advice !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

If you are 22 hes 24 you have 17 month old and a 7month old and all you do is fight and he gets well mean and you have no way to leave asnd support your kids and no family to help you should you stay just to make sure your kids are taken care of?Advice !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
That's what social services and child support are for my dear.


Social services can help you with a place to stay, get hud housing and a lawyer to help you get child support for your kids.


There are many programs set up to help women in your position.


You can't live your life miserable in a bad situation, contact your local social services and get out before he starts to get violent with you or, even worse, the kids.Advice !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
why would you subject your children to that type of relationship...try seeking other help before you end the relationship/
if you still love him, see if he wants to go to counseling or try to work out your problems, even though i'm sure you've already tried. i think you should find somewhere else to go. try a friends house. and if you open up to some family member, im sure they would help you. the dude might only get worse and you don't want him to take it out on the kids too. you want your kids to grow up in a loving environment or they will grow up to hate you both and blame you both for their own problems.
No, if he is mean to you and the kids, get out and go to a shelter. They can provide food and a place for you to live until you get on your feet. Good luck.
I have never been in this situation, but I don't think you should stay. In most places there are centers for women and their children to get out of those abusive relationships, there are plenty of ways to get out of it, if you have to resort to moving away that might be the case. Just think of what is best for you and your children, and an abusive relationship isn't, even if it's just verbal or emotional abuse. Your kids will see the tension and feel your hurt. My best friend as a kid, her parents hated eachother, she told me time and time again she wished they'd divorced, after she turned 18 they did, and she's been through so much even though they rarely showed their anger. So believe me, your kids will know the pain.
Address the issue, is it stress from work, having a family, the responsibilities of being a man in our society that is making your husband lash out. Are you contributing to your husbands moods such as nagging, pestering or not encouraging and showing love? You got married for a reason...Go back to that reason and find out where did his issues start...Was it the birth of the kids, a promotion at work, etc. You guys should go to counseling through your pastor or a counselor. Try to look at the big pic and address the issues so you guys can be a productive and happy family....hope everything works out well for you, let divorce be a last decision!
I wouldn't stay! Leave, Take your kids get a good job and a house or an apartment, or if you can't do that then ( this might sound dumb) stay with your parents untill you can get a job. If he tries to hurt you when you leave, just call 911.
No, becasue the abuse is bad for you and the babies.


Go stay with family or friends if you can, get counseling or leave and get a job or two with a great babysitter.


There are a lot of programs that will help women get on their feet and leave abusive relationships.


Good luck. I'm going to pray for you :)
You both are awfully young! I think you should have thought this through before having children. What do you mean by he ';gets well mean';? You're not married, do you both work at decent jobs? There's just not much detail to work from here.





You have two children under two years old, so there is a lot of stress there.





You were with him to have two children, you two need to take responsibility and try to work things out before just taking the easy way out and calling it quits.